According to the Association for the Study of African American Life and History; the 2021 theme for Black History Month is The Black Family: Representation, Identity, and Diversity.
The black family has been a topic of study in many disciplines—history, literature, the visual arts and film studies, sociology, anthropology, and social policy. Its representation, identity, and diversity have been reverenced, stereotyped, and vilified from the days of slavery to our own time. The black family knows no single location, since family reunions and genetic-ancestry searches testify to the spread of family members across states, nations, and continents. Not only are individual black families diasporic, but Africa and the diaspora itself have been long portrayed as the black family at large. While the role of the black family has been described by some as a microcosm of the entire race, its complexity as the “foundation” of African American life and history can be seen in numerous debates over how to represent its meaning and typicality from a historical perspective—as slave or free, as patriarchal or matriarchal/matrifocal, as single-headed or dual-headed household, as extended or nuclear, as fictive kin or blood lineage, as legal or common law, and as black or interracial, etc. Variation appears, as well, in discussions on the nature and impact of parenting, childhood, marriage, gender norms, sexuality, and incarceration. The family offers a rich tapestry of images for exploring the African American past and present.
Family is one of my favorite topics. A beautiful happy family comes in so many shapes and forms and mine is one that I’m ever so grateful for. I like to joke that we look like the family on a church fan.
We are a family of 5 Mother, Father, two boys and a girl. We are a family that laughs often at and with one another. My husband and I married young but didn’t have our first son until we were married for 8 years. I treasure the time that we shared together as a couple but becoming parents was the greatest pleasure of our lives. This month I will spotlight families that are inspiring, living examples making Black History everyday.